Discerning the will of God requires a tried and tested relationship with Him. One way we grow with God is to wrestle with Him- to choose to pursue Him and struggle with Him, opening ourselves up to a conflict that leaves us refined. As we mature on our faith journey and grow in wisdom and understanding, we soon learn that God uses our struggles, temptations, and trials to draw us closer to Him. When we are at our weakest that is when His power is made perfect. When we cry out to Him and surrender our desires, exchanging them for His will, we can truly walk in the freedom that only He can offer.